I am not QF (heard of that? “Quiverful” — it’s basically the Protestant version of the Catholic no-contraception idea), but I have great respect for those who choose that route.

I could have written your post almost word-for-word. Each time I *thought* I was done, God trumped my plans, and I am so thankful for His thoughts being higher than my thoughts.

We’re not planning on adoption (yet), but I am now freely telling everyone that I would like another child, even though my youngest is only 7 months. It’s not like we’re trying right now, but I’m so, so, so happy to be *FREE* not to live in fear of pregnancy. I’m so happy to be *FREE* to enjoy my children, and to look forward to God (hopefully!) adding more.

Dh and I have talked about this whole “planning” thing, and we fully acknowledge that we can make our plans, but He’s the One who directs our steps. We’re not to hold tightly to our plans — we need to keep flexible and submissive to His plans for us, which we do not clearly see, not knowing the future as He does.

It’s hard for me to judge other families; I don’t think every family is cut out for even one child, let alone four, five or more. My sister and her dh are childless, and I think that’s probably the right decision for them for a number of diverse reasons. However, I’m glad that God has seen fit to give my own family four wonderful dc, and I’m hoping He has at least one more for us!!!

mary